There I said it, I hate LinkedIn. Almost every person I’ve talked to about the job hunt has told me to start with LinkedIn, but I’m not feeling the love. You see, from what I’ve gathered, LinkedIn is a site to use for people who already have job experience and are seeking a new job. That’s what gets you in the door, experience. For me, my experience on paper doesn’t say as much as my life experience has to offer. There’s no appropriate spot on the resume to show off how many mL’s of Motrin to give my kids when they’re sick, no spot to show where I balanced a budget on one income for years, and definitely nowhere to start a conversation and show off how charismatic I can be in person. Nope, none of that. I’m not trying to have a pity party, I knew it wouldn’t be easy, I just didn’t realize it would feel like I was hitting so many dead end roads.
Which leads me to the one page I have applied most to, “The Mom Project”. This company gives me a glimmer of hope because they state that their mission is to help women (mothers) find their way back into the workforce. So far, I have only gotten one very politely written rejection letter from them. Rejection is fine, I’m ready for it. It’s been a hard realization that my identity and worth to a business is narrowed down to my one page resume. I’m not trying to put all of my eggs in one basket but I have my eye on “The Mom Projects” job listings most of all. Moms helping moms, I dig that.
I don’t truly hate LinkedIn, I just am disappointed with how impersonal their job site can seem. Technology and resumes can be limiting, I mean, is that really the best we have to offer people we are wanting to hire to work for our businesses? I would love nothing more than for each application I submit, to get a 5 minute video interview. It’s just too easy for companies to write me off after looking at my resume. Which is why it’s time to be bold. Considering most companies don’t even send a rejection letter (this is very common by the way so I take no offense to it), I’m going to go big or go home. Some companies allow you to write a brief explanation of why you’re excited/qualified to work for their company. That’s my shot, that’s my window to give them the ole’ razzle dazzle that is my bright and shiny personality.
I’m not trying to be vein, but I have so much to give!!! I just need to get an interview, to get in the door, to get one phone call. Then I can show them how worthy I am of entrusting me with their company. Maybe this blog should have been titled “I hate resumes”. I’m way cooler and have a lot more to offer than the cheesy, overused phrases that we use to try to wow an employer on a resume. But, that’s what I’m stuck with. That’s the format companies use. Maybe I need to create a business that uses other forms of applying for a job than a sheet of paper. I’ll ruminate on that.
I told yall I would keep you up to speed on the job hunt. It’s been …fine. Nothing to brag about, nothing worth mentioning, lots of applying, lots of silence, a couple of rejection letters. And that’s okay. Why? Because I’m not just sitting on the sidelines waiting for my life to happen, I’m happening to my life. I am in control of my destiny and I know nothing worth having comes easily. I also get it. I get that companies need someone well-versed in certain fields. I want the company that hires me to want me and as much as I want them. Until that company offers me an interview, I will persist on, keep trying and keep bringing all that I have to the table.
At the end of the day, a job is just a job. I firmly believe you can do something that brings you joy and also makes you money. My prayer is that wherever I end up, God uses me as a vessel to make this world for the better. Onward and upwards friends! The hunt continues (on LinkedIn) for now!
Andrea